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I sat down with Resident Expert Mistress Hadley to discuss Sub Drop and Domme Drop. Below find the panel of questions I asked her along with a transcript of our interview.
Sub Drop & Domme Drop Questions
Can you explain what Sub Drop is in simple terms, and what typically causes it?
What is Domme Drop, and how does it differ from Sub Drop?
What are the most common physical, emotional, and psychological symptoms of Sub Drop? Are there any that people often overlook?
What unique symptoms or challenges do you see with Domme Drop, such as guilt, self-doubt, or imposter syndrome. And why might they feel particularly heavy for dominants?
Beyond the neurochemical crash, what psychological or environmental factors can intensify Sub Drop or Domme Drop?
What are some common myths about Sub Drop or Domme Drop (ex: “it only happens to newbies” or “aftercare is just cuddling”)?
What are the most effective ways to prevent or minimize Sub Drop and Domme Drop?
How should aftercare look different for a submissive versus a dominant? What specific aftercare needs do Dommes often have that get overlooked?
Can you share examples of personalized aftercare plans that have worked well for clients or partners experiencing drop?
How can someone recognize early warning signs of drop in themselves or their partner, and what should they do immediately?
In a D/s dynamic, how can a submissive best support their Domme through Domme Drop without “topping from the bottom” or neglecting their own needs?
What advice would you give to newcomers versus experienced players about preparing for and navigating these drops?
Are there any emerging insights, practices, or research around drop that you find particularly promising?
Sub Drop and Domme Drop Interview Transcript
00:02.52
Ms Becky
Hello and welcome back to Kinkology, the psychology of kink. I’m your host, Miss Becky, former therapist, current femdom, here to dissect the intersection between kink and psychology. Today, we have on a very special guest to discuss a really important topic. I am thrilled to welcome April’s mistress of the month, Miss Hadley, on to discuss SubDrop and DomDrop.
00:29.02
Ms Becky
Welcome, Miss Hadley.
00:31.27
Ms. Hadley
Hello. Thank you for having me. I’m happy to be here.
00:33.97
Ms Becky
I am so happy to be here. And just so you guys know, we actually have one of our little sissy slaves doing an ignore session with us today. So we are both being compensated for this call or excuse me, for this episode, which I fucking love. Ignore sessions are a favorite of mine.
00:54.68
Ms. Hadley
Me too. Thank you, sweet sissy.
00:59.42
Ms Becky
And the inspiration from this episode was actually relating to that exact same sweet sissy that me and Hadley share. After a particularly intense session with our sissy slut, Hadley began educating the subbie on the ins and outs of SubDrop with such precision and intelligence that I decided right there and then to get her booked on a special episode of Kinkology. I’ve been meaning to cover it, and once I knew the breadth Hadley’s information, i just knew that she was the perfect guest. Honestly, I like to think of myself as a pretty educated girl, but Hadley’s knowledge on SubDrop put me to shame. So now you are all going to be similarly put to shame and educated by our own Miss Hadley.
01:44.09
Ms Becky
You are welcome. So Ms. Hadley, let’s jump right in shall we? Can you explain what sub drop is in simple terms and what typically causes it?
01:49.92
Ms. Hadley
Love it.
01:55.80
Ms. Hadley
Sure. So in simple terms, the notion of sub drop or drop in general is the body’s physical response over time to an intense experience.
02:09.91
Ms. Hadley
ah It’s also common that people will feel similar things after a really good vacation, particularly good date with somebody when they feel really connected. ah Anything that is intense in a generally positive way ah will use up our happy chemicals or our intensity chemicals faster. Yeah.
02:39.00
Ms. Hadley
endorphins and
02:43.83
Ms. Hadley
and i’m of all times for forgetting the name of the chemicals but things like our our endorphin system ah will get depleted we get very excited things are very intense very happy uh you might be doing something new something exciting something that you were afraid of which is working particularly intensely and then when you’re finished and it’s quiet again those resources those chemicals have been used up and we end up feeling
03:20.81
Ms. Hadley
bland or washed out so that’s yeah
03:24.14
Ms Becky
That makes sense. So it’s like a neurochemical deficit caused by the rush of so many chemicals all at once.
03:32.02
Ms. Hadley
Absolutely. That’s a great way to describe it.
03:36.48
Ms Becky
Very interesting. And then what is domdrop and how does it differ from subdrop?
03:42.07
Ms. Hadley
So Dom drop is the same neurological process. We have chemicals, we deplete them. And then when we need our normal amount of them later, they’re not available and it can make us feel a certain way. um Typically the drop,
03:58.65
Ms. Hadley
can follow the experience and what i have had described to me and described in conversations with some subbies is during the scene when the excitement or intensity is happening the subbie when they let go will feel like a blanket when you’re putting your your sheet or your blanket over a bigger bed you see it it goes up in the air and it sort of floats and it makes its way down and drapes its way over the bed and it’s everywhere all at once sort of and cause and effect every action has an equal and opposite reaction typically the dominant will spend that time in a laser pinpoint focus nothing exists except the subby the subby’s body language sounds physical needs psychological needs all of that
04:55.99
Ms. Hadley
is down to a single point of focus for the dominant so the drop can feel like the subbie will feel lost and still everywhere and not sure where to go hang on you’re gonna have to take this out because
05:09.67
Ms Becky
Okay. Eh.
05:14.46
Ms. Hadley
i’m about to cough excuse me all right back on so the subbie will feel like they’re still everywhere and don’t have necessarily a direction to go or a place to be and the dominant can get caught in a place where they are really hyper focused on small things and details in front of them and they need to let their brain relax a little bit and they’re equal but opposite sort of so
05:52.67
Ms. Hadley
I imagine that’s probably the biggest difference is the focus and trying to re regain focus or regain um the ability to consider multiple things at once.
06:03.19
Ms. Hadley
It’s temporary, but it does happen.
06:05.50
Ms Becky
Okay, very interesting.
06:10.17
Ms Becky
What are the most common physical, emotional and psychological symptoms of sub drop? And are there any that people often overlook?
06:20.18
Ms. Hadley
I think that people often overlook that it’s happening at all. It comes on… Because it’s not something with specific symptoms. It is individual because it’s a psychological thing, of course.
06:31.13
Ms. Hadley
um Typically, fatigue, sadness, melancholy, a general sense of doom. Everything is doomed. ah People will…
06:46.32
Ms. Hadley
24, depending on when it happens, 24, 36 hours later, start to get this feeling that the connection wasn’t real and that they look or feel or are ridiculous or foolish for having these feelings.
07:03.22
Ms. Hadley
They feel like the intensity of that rush was artificially inflated and a general sense that they can’t trust their own feelings. um Submission being a a submissive in an intense scene can feel like you were chosen.
07:24.06
Ms. Hadley
And then
07:37.09
Ms. Hadley
it’s the need to project. It’s killing me
07:39.79
Ms Becky
Oh, I’m so sorry.
07:41.29
Ms. Hadley
me. Ah, I need new laptop. Give me 30 seconds. This isn’t done yet. Hang on.
07:47.54
Ms Becky
Okay.
08:19.90
Ms. Hadley
My goal in life is to record something without a bunch of fuck ups. Ah, Jesus.
08:30.77
Ms. Hadley
Okay. The intensity in a scene when you’re the submissive can feel like you have been chosen or handpicked. There’s a real sense of trust that develops and when that is finished and we separate that can feel like you’ve been unchosen or discarded.
08:52.31
Ms. Hadley
And one of the best, most crucial parts of this and managing that feeling of abandonment is the check-in call.
09:05.85
Ms. Hadley
And I have always, and will continue to do a check-in call, even when I’m told they’re not needed. I encourage highly, highly any other dominant to make that check-in call.
09:18.29
Ms. Hadley
lets the submissive know that they are not forgotten about, they have not been abandoned, that their feelings are real. And a lot of times just hearing that the top is also going through any sort of withdrawal or drop of their own can be a very reassuring aspect of the what we call aftercare.
09:38.46
Ms. Hadley
And it can really mitigate those feelings of doom and abandonment and help quicken the response uh toward normality so i do recommend that
09:51.78
Ms Becky
Oh, excellent. Excellent. And what unique symptoms or challenges do you see with DomDrop in particular? Maybe something along the lines of like guilt, self-doubt or imposter syndrome. And why might those feel particularly heavy for dominance?
10:09.40
Ms. Hadley
well the imposter syndrome can be a really tough aspect of that. We are taking power from people, we’re borrowing their sense of personal power, and that can feel casual in the moment. And then when you start to look at it later, you question, did that person, were they into it? Were they doing it just for me?
10:32.95
Ms. Hadley
which can seem like ah like the the whole reason when you’re in the middle of it. And then afterwards, there’s the, well, you did X. Well, you made me. And that can come with tension.
10:45.53
Ms. Hadley
If you were playing with a paddle for a spanking or a flogger and you missed one of your strikes, it landed a couple inches to the left or a couple inches high, you start to…
10:59.26
Ms. Hadley
deconstruct all of that for yourself and you start to wondering are my skills okay can i read my submissive the way i should be able to should i be doing this to anybody and it can get also really heavy and you can create this toxic fiction for yourself that you aren’t doing it right and you shouldn’t be doing it and that is again part and parcel to the drop and the depleted personal resources and um
11:29.75
Ms. Hadley
It can feel really heavy because as the dominant, you are saddled with the expectation that you’re going to keep everything, not just saddled with it, you take it on. you If you’re not willing to take it on, you shouldn’t be there. But it comes with the expectation that you’re going to carry the mental load, you’re going to carry the emotional load, and you’re going to be able to help your submissive manage this if it gets heavy for them.
11:55.80
Ms. Hadley
and ah you are the pre-scene and post-scene beast of emotional burden and keeping your sense of
12:08.95
Ms. Hadley
control can get hard And again, it’s just, it’s important to continually remind yourself that it is a physiological process with a psychological effect and it’s temporary.
12:25.64
Ms. Hadley
You’ll be fine in 24, 36 hours.
12:28.74
Ms Becky
Okay. Excellent. And beyond that neurochemical crash that you had referenced earlier, what psychological or environmental factors can intensify sub-drop or dom-drop?
12:45.88
Ms. Hadley
That can be
12:50.26
Ms. Hadley
a whole host of things. the The timing, what’s going on in the rest of your life, yeah if you’re feeling personally vulnerable because of stress or loss or job or family stuff, that can really affect it. The location where you are are, you someplace that you’re familiar with, that you’re comfortable with? Is it somewhere new?
13:11.06
Ms. Hadley
um Your personal circumstances, your health conditions, your blood sugar level. Have you eaten recently? That can really impact how the scene goes. Hydration, things like food and water seem so basic because they literally are. But if we don’t have those things appropriately onboarded, they can and will impact how the rest of our body responds to what is happening.
13:34.90
Ms. Hadley
So, those can be really impactful. Your social schedule, where did you just come from? And do you have any other demands coming on you in the next little while? How is your chemistry with your partner?
13:45.34
Ms. Hadley
Do you know them? If you’re feeling like it’s a world of doom, 24 hours or 30, mine’s usually about 48 hours after it happens, which is also different for everybody.
13:58.26
Ms Becky
I agree with you on that though. The day after the day after almost with everything, it’s the day after the day after for me.
14:01.49
Ms. Hadley
Yep.
14:03.96
Ms. Hadley
Yep. Yep. Same, same, same. um So that, yeah your interpersonal chemistry with your partner, do you feel like you’re close enough with them to call and be like, I feel like shit and i need I need you to tell me that it was a good scene and it was real and that what I was feeling while it was going on isn’t just some psychological pipe dream that I’m carrying around.
14:29.27
Ms. Hadley
And all of those things can intensify or lessen it and it’s really important that you have somebody that knows what you’re going through that can respond in a way that is affirming.
14:47.13
Ms. Hadley
That can make a big difference.
14:49.75
Ms Becky
Excellent. Excellent. You’re just spitting facts right now. I love it. What are some common myths that might be a soapy?
15:01.69
Ms Becky
And speaking of facts, let’s go in the other direction. what are some common myths that might be associated with sub drop or dom drop? Like, you know, that it only happens to newbies or that aftercare is just cuddling
15:17.59
Ms. Hadley
I think probably the most common myth, and we certainly dealt with this for a couple of minutes when we were talking to our sweet little sissy girl when this all came up, is the myth that you can tough through it or you can get immunity.
15:34.36
Ms. Hadley
You can get drop anytime you’ve had an intense… experience, but positive or negative. ah I hope that if you’re playing playing with BDSM and stuff that it’s it’s an intensely good time.
15:49.69
Ms. Hadley
But no matter how experienced you are and no matter how badass you think you are, expecting to be immune from drop is like expecting to be immune from hunger.
16:03.77
Ms. Hadley
it’s a physiological depletion. Like if you’re not eating, your blood sugar is going to get low and your body is going to do what it does when it gets low blood sugar. Just like if your endorphins drop, you’re not going to feel the same way. And again, thinking that you are going to outrun it, outperform it.
16:28.12
Ms. Hadley
It’s just, you’re not. And trying to resist or deny like that will make it worse. It’ll make it worse.
16:40.02
Ms. Hadley
If you think that what you need is a cuddle and a hug, going and sitting in a thorn bush is not goingnna help you. It’s just not. So accepting that you’re having a physiological reaction and a psychological reaction to what your body is doing
17:05.11
Ms. Hadley
has a couple of effects. a And like anything else, if you’re not sure what’s going on, it’s scarier. Once you identify what’s going on, you know what’s happening to you, um it makes it easier. If you lean into it, you’ll get through it faster.
17:21.28
Ms Becky
Oh, I absolutely agree with that. It’s almost like just normalizing it because when it happens to you, it feels very traumatic and very big and exposing. And there is something to be said for for
17:31.48
Ms. Hadley
and real.
17:36.44
Ms Becky
being able to put that into context and understand what’s happening in your body.
17:42.23
Ms. Hadley
Agreed.
17:44.38
Ms Becky
Well, so it doesn’t sound like there is a way to all out prevent it. Are there ways that to, at are there effective ways to minimize sub drop or dom drop?
17:59.53
Ms. Hadley
Sure. Self care. I like to say self-care is sexy. And if you get yourself properly hydrated, nutritiously fed, and get a nap, those things will go a whole long way toward making you feel normal again.
18:24.82
Ms. Hadley
There aren’t a lot of things around us that we can necessarily… Control, but you can control how hydrated you are. So do that as simple as it sounds. Hydration, hydration, hydration. It really, it helps so many things in your body as well.
18:43.54
Ms. Hadley
And sleep, good food. It’s really going to make a difference. I also suggest a little bit of comfort food, maybe a little bit chocolate. It does that ah happy little dance in your brain for you.
18:56.60
Ms. Hadley
can reset you a little bit and it just tastes good. And, um, comfy clothes and maybe, uh, the hallmark channel made for TV movie.
18:59.80
Ms Becky
Mm-hmm.
19:09.57
Ms. Hadley
It’s just a little, a little guilty pleasure for your brain while you’re trying to reset your, your, uh, your, your personal dials can help.
19:21.73
Ms Becky
What about aftercare for dominance? How should aftercare look different for a submissive versus a dominant? And what specific aftercare needs do doms have that may often get overlooked?
19:36.28
Ms. Hadley
I think a lot of that is the notion that dominance don’t actually need aftercare at all. um And i can’t point any fingers of blame. We cultivate that in a lot of ways.
19:52.40
Ms Becky
Mm-hmm.
19:53.05
Ms. Hadley
And ah in a lot of instances, it’s it’s necessary. If we’re going to ask somebody to trust us with all of their personal power,
20:05.39
Ms. Hadley
it’s better if you present yourself as somebody who knows what to do with it, as opposed to, I might just spill it on the ground. Oops. So we can, and frequently do give off the illusion that we neither want nor need, nor are interested in any kind of aftercare. But the truth is hugs feel good to everybody.
20:26.46
Ms. Hadley
And in the aftermath,
20:27.00
Ms Becky
know
20:32.12
Ms. Hadley
the hydration and the nap and the nutritious food are things that we will tend to do for ourselves.
20:43.32
Ms. Hadley
um
20:47.73
Ms Becky
I’ve got a great acronym for that.
20:47.96
Ms. Hadley
I think as a, yeah, thanks.
20:49.62
Ms Becky
Oh, I’m sorry. Go ahead.
20:50.71
Ms. Hadley
Oh, no, that’s not just as dominance, we need to be okay with starting our sentences sometimes with, hey, I need, i need this, I need that as opposed to ordering things.
21:05.27
Ms. Hadley
yeah Get on your knees, stand up, do that. Those are fun and everything, but the practicality after the scene is over. I need a hug. I need a nap. I need a glass of water. Those are important. We need to be able to say it in order to get it.
21:18.81
Ms Becky
Yeah, absolutely. There is an acronym that absolutely there is an acronym that comes from the substance abuse world that’s called HALT and it they use it to just kind of do a personal self-care check-in with yourself. It stands for hungry, angry,
21:42.30
Ms Becky
lonely, tired. So if you’re having a bad day, what you want to do is make sure, hey, when’s the last time I’ve eaten? Am I, am i you know, um nourishing my body the way I need to be? Am I angry? Am i holding on to something that I need to be dealing with? Am I lonely? Would, you know, would I feel better if I was around people? And do I need a nap, right?
22:08.89
Ms Becky
We do need a nap sometimes.
22:11.29
Ms. Hadley
It is important to
22:12.28
Ms Becky
ah ah um Yeah, I could see that being very, very helpful in terms of sub drop or dom drop. Can you share any examples of personalized aftercare plans that have really worked well for your clients or partners that have experienced drops?
22:32.82
Ms. Hadley
is important to take into account before you start what you’re going to need after you’re finished.
22:43.54
Ms. Hadley
In life, I think that’s decent advice. It certainly applies in this case. And because drop comes 48 hours after the scene, I typically am not around.
22:57.30
Ms. Hadley
Unless it’s somebody that I am in an ongoing personal relationship with, I’m not going to be there to do all of your aftercare, but you’re still going to need it.
23:08.12
Ms. Hadley
So what I recommend for people,
23:13.56
Ms. Hadley
what I recommend for clients and insist on for people that I’m interacting with just on a fun personal level, because they sometimes do this shit for free just because it’s fun, um is you need to have somebody who is going to be there who will understand, even if you don’t want to get into the all of the ins and outs of what you’re up to, because I get that, um they still need to know that You might be feeling off.
23:39.05
Ms. Hadley
I’m hoping you have somebody that you trust enough to say, hey, I’m gonna go and do something a little bit off the wall. But you have to have somebody there who can tell you you’re not crazy and you’re not imagining things. And having another person that you trust around is crucial. I also recommend that you have a kit ready you’re traveling for your playtime, bring it with you. If you’re going to be home with it, have it ready so that it doesn’t feel like a chore to get up and assemble a blanket and fuzzy slippers and your comfy pajamas and bar of chocolate and, don’t know, rent the Princess Bride or something and sit and watch that.
24:27.29
Ms. Hadley
And having all of those things in place and ready to go gives you a comfortable… proactive personal care space that you can immerse yourself in.
24:40.89
Ms. Hadley
if bubble baths are your thing, go take a bubble bath. um And that will at least help you feel normal while your body is doing what your body needs to do to replenish all of those fun chemicals that you have depleted.
24:56.98
Ms Becky
Yeah, it’s almost like you just need like a soft place to land afterwards to allow that brain to generate all those yummy chemicals that we depend on to keep us happy and satisfied.
25:00.66
Ms. Hadley
Absolutely.
25:10.68
Ms. Hadley
Yes.
25:12.33
Ms Becky
How can somebody recognize early warning signs of drop in themselves or their partner?
25:12.50
Ms. Hadley
Adrenaline. sharp
25:18.11
Ms Becky
And what should they do immediately when they when they are starting to recognize that they are going into drop?
25:26.42
Ms. Hadley
You should expect it. I recommend that people try to remember that they’re going to have it coming because when you are going through your day and you don’t understand why you are tired and cranky and weepy and feel like the whole world is doomed it gets bigger and scarier and naming it and recognizing it allows you to lean into it and you’re addressing it it’s not addressing you So if you’re out someplace and you can’t lay down and take a nap in the meat section of your grocery store, at least you can recognize what’s happening to you. Maybe grab a chocolate bar on your way home.
26:09.21
Ms. Hadley
But leaning into it and accepting it and dealing with it is absolutely going to help you every time. If you’ve got a storm to face, walk through it and not away from it, you’ll get there faster.
26:25.30
Ms Becky
Yeah, very true. Well, in a dominant submissive dynamic, I’m asking here for all of my little subbies that always ask me this question.
26:37.88
Ms Becky
How can a submissive best support their DOM through DOMDrop without, you know, topping from the bottom or neglecting their own needs?
26:50.38
Ms. Hadley
If you are in a position where you are still with your dominant two days later, then there’s an increased probability that you are going to know them better as a human being and will have a better sense for do they typically want More contact or more space?
27:09.85
Ms. Hadley
um When I’m going through my personal drop, um and like I get like a giant toddler. I want all of the things, but I don’t want to be bothered. And that can be a challenge because I’m not wired to express my vulnerability quite as easily as my submissive counterpart might be. So it can feel,
27:34.88
Ms. Hadley
additionally threatening to not just identify needs, but then have to tell somebody whose needs you’re normally meeting that you need something from them. So again, I think that being willing to be open, use your words and be honest with the people who are sharing this journey with you that you have needs in the first place can be really helpful.
27:55.57
Ms Becky
Mm-hmm.
27:57.94
Ms. Hadley
And as far as not neglecting your own needs um a lot of that can be mitigated by talking about it before you start again if like if you have drop in two days are you gonna want me around are you gonna want space the answer doesn’t always stay consistent but it’s it’s easier to deal with if you thought about it in advance and just to remember that everybody needs a little bit extra
28:32.44
Ms. Hadley
care And um if your dominant wants you to do something that you really don’t have it in you to do, that you can still say, i can’t or no. And they might be a little bit disappointed in the moment, but the world’s not going to end.
28:50.71
Ms. Hadley
And if they react super badly, then they’re probably a jerk and you shouldn’t be there in the first place. So let yourself out the back door.
28:55.51
Ms Becky
Exactly.
29:00.31
Ms Becky
What advice would you give to newcomers versus experienced players about preparing for and navigating these drops?
29:10.13
Ms. Hadley
um that it’s real that preparation does matter and if you get yourself that little like
29:20.15
Ms. Hadley
like i said your comfy pajamas your comfy socks your favorite sweatpants whatever that is a little snack for yourself and and grace give yourself some i think sometimes miss becky that is really the hardest thing you’re
29:37.49
Ms Becky
Mm-hmm.
29:38.39
Ms. Hadley
the tendency to walk around like, why am I so weak? Why am I feeling like this? Why can’t I just tough through it? You can’t. It’s like walking around hungry and not having a sandwich and wondering why your hunger is not going away. it It just doesn’t work that way. Your body needs something and you have to give your body that something. And the more care you use to do it, the better results you will get.
29:59.35
Ms. Hadley
and So not looking at it as weakness or failure is really, really crucial. It’s neither of those things. It’s just a physiological process that has a psychological component and naming it and leaning into it and going through it instead of trying to get around it are going to so serve you better every single time.
30:26.26
Ms Becky
Yeah, you know, it’s interesting. There is a saying in mental health therapy that discharge planning starts with your first session, right? You’re already looking forward to um what needs to happen for that person to not be in therapy anymore. And I kind of feel like after care…
30:45.26
Ms Becky
follows that same basic pattern as though it starts before the session even starts is you start having these conversations about, you know, building your plan to address what sounds like an inevitable, at least at some times,
30:51.38
Ms. Hadley
Yes.
31:04.60
Ms Becky
thing that’s going to happen to you following an intense scene.
31:08.57
Ms. Hadley
Absolutely.
31:11.71
Ms Becky
Well, I’m curious, are there any emerging insights, practices, or research around DROP that you find particularly promising floating about?
31:11.74
Ms. Hadley
Absolutely.
31:23.60
Ms. Hadley
I don’t know that there are any particular research projects happening right now. I think that in general we know about the adrenaline and the endorphins and that they have to replenish. And so being informed in that manner going to set you ahead of people who haven’t bothered to find those things out.
31:52.76
Ms. Hadley
for sure um and until then until somebody takes a different kind of of interest in that process uh what we have is our pajama kit and our friends and uh knowing it and naming it naming it tames it so naming it is taming it right think it’s less scary when you know what it is so um i don’t have any awareness of any kind of research, but um my own little research has led me to here. So that’s what i recommend.
32:27.64
Ms Becky
Yeah, I will say name it to tame it works for a particular reason. ah i will say that name it to tame it works for a particular reason that is related to neuroscience. Basically, when we’re in stressful situations, our prefrontal cortex is going to shut down and, um,
32:53.02
Ms Becky
Name it to tame it is one of the ways that you can kind of wake up your brain and and get it functioning again, get it thinking critically a little bit um to understand what’s happening to you. And so it helps turn back on that prefrontal cortex so that your brain is active and not in that dormant, you know, very activated state that that can be when we’re not aware of what’s going on.
33:18.55
Ms Becky
Well, this has been fucking fascinating.
33:20.48
Ms. Hadley
I love it.
33:23.30
Ms Becky
Hadley, I’m so grateful you came on to share your wisdom and knowledge with all of us. I know my audience appreciates it as well. Why don’t you let them know where they can find you and a little bit about what you’ll do to them when they, why don’t you let them know where they can find you and a little bit about what you’ll do to them when you do.
33:44.67
Ms. Hadley
Well, I am April’s mistress of the month. So with any paid call of 10 minutes or more, you’ll get five free minutes added with me. You mentioned it to dispatch to get that.
33:56.82
Ms. Hadley
And I am at I will dominate you.com. And you can find me on Twitter as Empress Hadley and discord as LDW Hadley.
34:11.19
Ms. Hadley
Those are the places where I am most. I’m also on Blue Sky, but not that much. It’s hadley.betancourt.blueskies. But mostly, can find me on Discord or email me, hadley at enchantrixempire.com.
34:22.17
Ms Becky
Excellent.
34:26.87
Ms Becky
Brilliant.
34:27.32
Ms. Hadley
And what I will do to them is I need for them to tell me what their deepest, darkest, most titillating desires are. And then I can decide if I need to be The screaming demon or a gentle breeze. And we will proceed from there.
34:49.14
Ms Becky
Both of which are fucking perfection. I play with Miss Hadley sometimes.
34:55.54
Ms. Hadley
love it.
34:55.70
Ms Becky
I have a really good time with Miss Hadley. Well, before we go, I do have a few announcements to review. As always, I want to give a big thanks to David McLeod for the sound and to the women of Enchantrix Empire and Femdom Friday for all the friendships. Speaking of the Femdom Friday Girl Gang, which Ms. Hadley is a part of too, you can come out and join the live show in Enchantrix Empire and our Discord server every Friday night at 9 p.m. Eastern Standard Time.
35:24.95
Ms Becky
And guess what? I’ve got a huge announcement. I am thrilled to announce that we are bringing back the Stroke-a-thon. The big event is May 23rd at 8 p.m. The strokeon is where you get to pick your Stroke-a-thon is where you get to pick your stroking skills against some very stiff competition to see who can last the longest. You’ll be…
35:47.96
Ms Becky
You can become eli eligible to participate with any participating mistress of your choice by booking a 30-minute session with that mistress and then following in the directions to become eligible. Or you can also just purchase your entry direct from phonesexassignments.com.
36:05.56
Ms Becky
And i got good news. If you want to get a leg up on your training, I have a little bundle deal to help you stroke cock like a champ to train for the stroke-a-thon.
36:18.52
Ms Becky
And if you want to get a leg up on your training, I have a little bundle deal for you to help you stroke cock like a champ to train for the stroke-a-thon. The package includes 60 Discord minutes for training. And if you don’t have Discord, you can follow up with me to see about um some other options. It includes a 10-minute erotic audio for some solo stroking sessions. And then five very naughty pictures of me to help inspire your stroking section.
36:47.42
Ms Becky
i to help inspire your stroking sessions. All of this for roughly the same price as an hour-long session. So you can find stroke like a… You can find stroke cock like a champ at phonesexassignments.com. And then for a limited time only, 60-minute calls are just $150 or it’s $15 off an hour-long multi-mistress call.
37:13.77
Ms Becky
This applies to dispatch calls only and cannot be combined with any other offers. You can also get 10 minutes for $20 between 12 a.m. and 6 a.m. when you mention this ad to your dispatcher.
37:26.97
Ms Becky
First time callers to LDW is going to get 10 minutes for $20 when they mention the new caller promotion to their sexy dispatchers. We’re going to continue with our spank bank. So you’re going to get five free minutes with a regularly priced session of 10 minutes or longer during active spank banks. You just need to keep your eyes peeled on our sites.
37:48.12
Ms Becky
And as always, offers this good cannot be combined with other offers. And that’s the show for today. I’m Miss Becky, and you can find me at IntelligentPhoneSexCalls.com, on X as Miss Becky and Chance, on Discord as LDW Becky.
38:07.00
Ms Becky
Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe to TKINKA. Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe to Kinkology, the psychology of kink. And I’ll see you back here next week.
38:17.21
Ms Becky
Until then, stay kinky.
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