Listen to “The 2026 Stroke-A-Thon Recap” on Spreaker.
Ms Becky
Hello and welcome back to Kinkology, the psychology of kink. I have an exciting show planned today. i know that you’ve heard me prattling on about the upcoming Stroke-a-thon for the past two months.
Ms Becky
Well, we finally crowned this year’s winner and I want to talk about it. So I invited some of the Stroke-a-thon mistresses to have a little discussion about the contest guide of masturbation, jerk-off instructions, and like their overall impression of this year’s annual st Stroke-A-Thon. So with no further ado, I present to you the st Stroke-A-Thon recap panel. Ladies, I’m going to have you give a little introduction and let the people know who you are. Hadley, I’ll start with you.
Hadley
Well, thank you, and I appreciate you having me here. It was certainly a good time. My first stroke-a-thon. Can’t wait to talk about it. I am Mistress Hadley, and I have been doing kinky delicious things in amateur and occasionally professional dungeons for quite a while, and this event was amazing. And anybody interested in contacting me can reach me at Hadley at enchantrixempire.com via email. And my blog is IWillDominateYou.com.
Hadley
And on ah the socials, look for Hadley. There’s not a lot of us. And I look forward to having this discussion. Thanks for having us.
Ms Becky
Oh, excellent. I’m really looking forward to it. What about you, Goddess Michelle?
Meshelle
Well, yes. Thank you so much for having me on the panel today. This was my first stripathon, so I am so excited to get into the nuts and bolts of it all.
Ms Becky
perfect
Meshelle
I have am your melodious Master Atrix goddess Michelle, and you can find me at themasterbatrix.com and on socials. on x at t-h-e-e the divine me or you can find me on blue sky at themastermatrix.bsky.social
Hadley
We have a lot of people who are here to go around.
Meshelle
thanks again for having me here miss becky
Ms Becky
Absolutely. And what about you, Miss Christa?
Krista
Well, hello everybody. i am Miss Krista, your hybrid mistress, and this was my second stroke-a-thon, and so much and excuse me and so much better than the first one.
Krista
I just really enjoyed this. And you can find me and um usually Discord’s probably the easiest way to find me, and that’s LDWKrista.com.
Ms Becky
Perfect. And we have Kinkology’s first ever appearance by Mistress Charlotte.
Charlotte
hey I am Miss Charlotte. This was my first stroke-a-thon as well, and I really, really enjoyed it. I guess there wasn’t one last year, and last year would have been my first year, but this was my first, so pop that cherry. And my socials are Charlotte Charmant Twitter and Blue Sky, LDW Charlotte on Discord, and my website is highendphonesex.com.
Ms Becky
Perfect. And what about you, Mistress Harper?
Audrey
Thank you.
Harper
I’ve been around for a hot minute, so this was not my first stroke-a-thon, and I’m sure you all can understand exactly why I really, really wanted us to do stroke-a-thon for this year.
Harper
It was fun, right? i love the stroke-a-thon. I’ve ah been with LDW Group um for mumble many years. You can find my blog. I’m at fetishphonesexblog.com. I’m on all the usual socials. And I also have my own podcast, Whore School. You will learn something. It’s definitely a threat in a good way.
Ms Becky
Brilliant.
Audrey
right.
Ms Becky
And Princess Andy, let us hear about you.
Andi
Hi, thanks for coming. It was not my first stroke-a-thon. It was my favorite so far. Everybody did fantastic, and I just loved it.
Andi
If you’re looking for me, you could find me on my blog, which is phonesexprincessblog.com, and I’m on the usual social media.
Andi
networks that a lot of us are on. So you can find all that there on my blog too. Thank you.
Ms Becky
Perfect. And finally, we have Mistress Audrey.
Audrey
Hi, thanks so much for having me. um This was my first stroke-a-thon. I could not believe how fun it was. I’m not sure why I haven’t done it in the past, but I will be doing it going forward.
Audrey
And you can find me at Discord Audrey. Oh, sorry, L-U-W underscore Audrey. And of course, I’m always on Enchantrix Empire.
Andi
course I’m always on a challenge
Audrey
And you can also read my blog at adultphonesexchat.com.
Ms Becky
Excellent. So as you can see, we have a nice full panel today. So we’re going to jump right in. I know we all had a blast at the stroke-a-thon this past Saturday. We really, really did. And as you heard, for some of us, it was the very first time, which makes it super special. I personally was rather cock drunk after the show, and I know a lot of you were as well. So what I want to know is what was your absolute favorite moment from the stroke-a-thon this year? And we’ll start with Charlotte.
Charlotte
Well, I think the obvious answer, and I think a lot of us are going to say that the come off was our favorite moment because it’s quite literally the peak of it, the climax.
Charlotte
But I honestly, I liked the start, like just throwing down the flag and saying go and watching them all start stroking was pretty um it was pretty good.
Charlotte
Because, you know, it was my first time, so I didn’t know it was going to happen. and it was just a whole bunch of stroking. i loved it.
Ms Becky
So right out the gate, you were like, let’s see them stroke.
Charlotte
Yep. Yep. Mm-hmm.
Ms Becky
What about you, Harper?
Harper
The come off. In fact, the fact that as soon as we swapped, I did a countdown. Three, two, one, go. And our winner in the sudden come off immediately.
Harper
And it’s It’s because in my turn, when I was telling all the guys what to do, he was so close. You could see it. You could watch him. He would arch his back and throw his chin up.
Harper
Like he was just like straining to keep it in. and he did. He held it in. he waited. And then as soon as we hit one instantly,
Audrey
Thank you.
Harper
I love a man who can come on command. Love that. That was so good.
Ms Becky
Right. That really was. Speaking of our strokers, which stroker surprised you the most? either by at Either by lasting way longer than expected or by completely crumbling at the perfect moment? Why don’t you answer, Princess Andi?
Andi
Hi, wow. The come off whiz was impressive and I was surprised we had to get there because everybody was so on. i thought there everybody that talked that somebody was going to come to them. So when we got there,
Andi
come. was It was fun watching them.
Ms Becky
And you broke up a little bit.
Andi
Oh, um is this better?
Ms Becky
Yeah.
Andi
okay thank you. um Seeing them crumble under that, that was exciting.
Ms Becky
i Absolutely agree. And what about you, Krista? What stroke or surprised you the most?
Krista
Well, I would have to say what surprised me the most is when Maxie… um blue during my time.
Andi
Thank you.
Audrey
Thank you.
Krista
I was completely unexpecting that. i did not I did not think that anybody would, but when she did, it was a pleasant surprise. And then I have a second one, kind of.
Krista
I was really surprised um during the come off that the guy that didn’t come first didn’t go ahead and release. He just kept it in.
Ms Becky
yeah that was Interesting.
Charlotte
Thank you.
Ms Becky
That was interesting. I agree with you on that one. Well, let’s switch tacks just a little bit. What’s one guided masturbation instruction that you notice works insanely well across different guys? And why do you think it hits so hard? Why don’t we go to Mistress harper
Harper
that
Ms Becky
Well, we had a little tech issue, so we are back. And now I want to switch tacks just a little bit. I want to go to what is one guided masturbation instruction that you gave that you notice works insanely well across different guys? And why do you think it’s so hard?
Ms Becky
is at And why do you think it hits so hard? And we’ll start with Harper.
Harper
I was very impressed with Miss Andy’s handgina instruction. That was impressive. All the guys immediately moved to obey.
Harper
love an obedient man. And um i was just, it worked. It worked really, really well. The almost coordinated nature of watching all of them move to immediately do exactly what she told them to do.
Harper
Obedience. It’s so hot.
Ms Becky
So fucking hot. I so agree. What about you, Miss Krista? What is one guided masturbation instruction that you notice works really well?
Krista
Well, you can’t argue with the hangina, but um I did notice that the, I call it the motorcycle throttle grip, really seems to get them going. And I think the reason being is because of the way that it can stimulate all the way around their cock at the same time and all the way up to the tip.
Krista
And I did notice that, well, that was really, it really got them, I guess their motor rubbing.
Andi
it
Ms Becky
Fuck yeah. Brilliant. Well, ladies, what turns you on most about being in control during something like this? Is it like the power? Is it the sounds that the guys make? The chat reactions or something entirely different than what I just stated? And we’ll start with Audrey.
Audrey
Yeah, I love knowing that the guys are jumping through hoops with their dicks to keep them hard to last. And they’re struggling to hang on for us.
Audrey
And then, of course, finally losing control. And i also love seeing guys get to a place where they’ve never been before. That’s exciting to me because, you know, but Everyone has different buttons to push to get them to a certain place. And I think it’s so fun to get to figure out exactly the right ones to push.
Ms Becky
I agree. What about Hadley?
Ms Becky
Hadley?
Ms Becky
Hadley, you’re on mute.
Hadley
I think for me, it’s the control and the power that comes with knowing it’s my voice that is in their ears and whatever I say is the thing that they are waiting for and hanging on and can’t wait to hear but are afraid to hear because they don’t know what’s coming next. I know when I was taking my turn, I got so focused and so into it that I found myself standing up out of my seat and leaning over my microphone and darn near growling into it because I wanted
Hadley
I wanted them to do what I was saying, and that was really hot for me.
Ms Becky
That was hot. What you did was fantastic. What about Goddess Michelle?
Meshelle
Well, you know me, I love a little bit of um exhibitionism and this was definitely feeding that a bit, especially those moments whenever I was calling the strokers by name and I could see their cocks twitch and stiffen with each instruction or thing that I said directly to them.
Meshelle
Oh, best feeling in the world. um I think that’s what really led to my little um cock hangover afterwards.
Meshelle
So yeah, definitely the exhibitionism and getting to kind of feed that little back and forth that got to happen during those instructions.
Ms Becky
For real.
Meshelle
Ooh, so sexy.
Ms Becky
Really? And I i was really cock drunk afterwards. Like I was like lightheaded. Somebody send help.
Meshelle
Oh, same girl.
Ms Becky
a hum And what about for the guys that are just getting into edging and jerk off instructions? What’s one piece of advice you wish every new stroke or before jumping into like a marathon like this, a marathon session? And Ms. Charlotte,
Charlotte
My one piece of advice would be to just slow the fuck down because so many of them, you know, guys will just jerk and jerk and jerk because it feels good and then they forget you The wrong head takes over, but i think maybe slow down.
Charlotte
Enjoy it. Relax and don’t try too hard to make it feel too good because we all know what happens when it feels too good.
Ms Becky
That’s right. That’s right. What about you, Audrey? What’s your one piece of advice that you wish every new stroker knew before jumping into a marathon session?
Audrey
Yeah, along the same lines as Miss Charlotte, I would say that the number one biggest misconception that I’ve come across is that it’s not a race. I mean, the whole point of calling a mistress to jerk off rather than doing it on your own is to enjoy it on a level that you might not have experienced. So whether it’s the sensuousness of having a mistress tell you how to stroke or the humiliation of having a mistress being in charge of your orgasm or a little of both, I think a stroking session with a mistress is something you can’t do on your own. So why would you want to rush through it to get to the end?
Ms Becky
That’s right. That’s right. Just take it nice and slow and easy and enjoy the ride. All
Andi
Giddy up.
Ms Becky
right. I’m sorry. Say that again.
Audrey
That wasn’t me.
Ms Becky
um,
Andi
That was me, I think. I thought I was muted. i was just like, giddy up. You said enjoy the ride. So I thought you couldn’t hear me and I was like, giddy up. hu I guess my mute button doesn’t work the way I thought it did.
Andi
Sorry about that.
Ms Becky
That happened to me one time before when I muted and in I would be muted and it was still picking up my voice. yeah That happened before. um All right. And then last thing I want to know is how you think events like, ah and the last thing I want to know is how do you think that events like this help normalize or celebrate male pleasure and submission in the kink world? And I’m going to go right to our lifestyle expert, Mistress Hadley.
Hadley
Well,
Hadley
I don’t think that the concept of male pleasure needs to be normalized anywhere. I think it’s the default and the standard when we start. And i do think that that aspect of it is what contributes to the idea of male submission needing to be normalized because i think there’s so much rhetoric surrounding sex and sexual activity that if you’re participating in any sort of sexual activity at all as a man that it is your job to be
Hadley
controlling and driving and dominant and in charge and in control. And that is not what we do here. And there are a lot of men who legitimately enjoy this. It’s their personal preference for the way they express themselves sexually. And I think that normalizing that as healthy and not just physically, but also psychologically really really brass tacks important because if you can’t express yourself sexually the way you want to and you’re instead trying to find outlets that your friends, family, acquaintances, whoever find acceptable, then you’re just creating a recipe for loneliness and sadness and sexual frustration.
Hadley
And ah that’s not what getting off is about. So I think these events are actually important with the capital i and not maybe not as important as world peace, but um maybe if everybody were a little happier and felt like they were a little safer and a little freer to express themselves the way they wanted to, maybe I have just discovered the way to world peace. Who’s to say?
Ms Becky
I like that. i like that. We’re out here doing the Lord’s work.
Ms Becky
um What about you? What do you think, Princess Andi?
Andi
I really like what um Hallie just had to say ah even Even now there’s still some misconceptions and shame when it comes to masturbation. So anything that helps remove that, I’m all for.
Andi
I used to, when I first started doing this every Halloween, I used to dress up like a masturbator. You know, all the myths, like I’d wear a straight jacket, hairy palms, just like I was but all at once, blind, have the glasses and stuff. And we all know none of that’s true.
Andi
But um I think it’s really important just to celebrate. Masturbation, my we said sit out of the park. We always have such fun things set up to celebrate. So I’m glad to be a part of it.
Ms Becky
Perfect. And goddess Michelle, what do you think?
Meshelle
I am also in agreement with Ms. Hadley. Things like Strokeathon definitely help normalize women feme women and femmes in dominant sexual positions, allowing men who prefer to be bottoms, receivers, you know, quote unquote, be aggressed upon in sexual kinky scenarios. Like, it’s totally okay for men and masculine folk to submit to us. And they absolutely should, more often.
Meshelle
All the time, if possible. Submit.
Meshelle
Submit.
Ms Becky
That’s fucking right. aha
Ms Becky
Hey, um we have some extra time, so I think I’m going to open up the floor for any additional thoughts, if anybody has any. um Can be an announcement, can be anything. um And we’ll just do that.
Ms Becky
Well… What about any final thoughts? Are there any final thoughts out here, ladies, that we want to air out before we end today’s episode?
Harper
Mostly that masturbation and learning about your own pleasure through events like the stroke-a-thon and learning what’s what’s your limit, what are you into, what really, really turns you on, what gets you going, and learning how to control yourself, your mind, your physiological responses, your whole entire ah body. I think it’s good for you.
Harper
I think it’s good for women. i think it’s good for men. I think it’s good for non-binary folks. it’s it makes you makes you healthier. It makes you happier.
Harper
it makes the world just a much nicer place.
Ms Becky
That is so true. Also, it makes you proficient at fucking, right? Like it’ll make it last longer, make you stay harder longer, improve your performance. Like there’s a lot of benefits to participating in a masturbation contest like this, or even just practicing your stroking styles, like have fun with it.
Harper
Yes. Yes. It’s supposed to be fun. i mean, the fact that there’s a prize and everything, that’s nice. But honestly, the Stroke-A-Thon isn’t about winning a prize. The Stroke-A-Thon is about the event itself and having fun.
Harper
You get to experience all these beautiful ladies giving you the most impassioned pleas and come instructions of your entire life, which
Charlotte
you
Harper
we’re having fun trust me we wouldn’t do this if we were not having fun with it nobody signs up to do the stroke-a-thon thinking well this is gonna suck you know we’re having fun and you are gonna have fun too because i mean yeah sure sex might be the key to world peace but also it’s just fucking fun y’all that’s all it’s just fun
Ms Becky
Absolutely agree. Anyone else have any final thoughts?
Krista
Oh, I do. um I want to mention that after the stroke-a-thon, there were 10 of us mistresses that joined my after party on kinks and drinks, and it was absolutely fucking fabulous.
Krista
um All the input and just the fun that we had after the stroke-a-thon as well. I hope that if you did not catch it,
Krista
You go back and you check it out. And there it’s on Spreaker. It’s also um it’s on my site, kinks um on phonesexfetishblog.com under the kinks and drinks tab.
Krista
Go check it out.
Ms Becky
That was fun. That was actually really, really fun. And everyone was still amped up because we had just gotten out of the stroke-a-thon. So we were all like really high energy. it was a really fun episode.
Meshelle
It was.
Krista
Probably the most fun.
Meshelle
i was there for that one. Sorry.
Krista
It was the most fun that I’ve had on Kingston drinks yet. And I think it was because of all the interaction with all of you wonderful mistresses.
Meshelle
Aw.
Ms Becky
Absolutely. Does anyone else have any final thoughts?
Meshelle
did I did. just wanted to say that kind of throw in with what Harper was saying about how this event is supposed to be fun because I did have um a subie who got very in their head about this. and actually wound up showing up to the event and had a really good time. And this actually helped them relax quite a bit, given the stressful situations that they’ve been in here recently. It was a nice little stress relief for them and also helped build their confidence a bit. So i can i definitely got to see the real-world benefits of an event like this. And it was so fun getting to collaborate with you lovely ladies to create an experience that I know helped helped immensely for someone’s confidence and mental well-being. This was spectacular.
Meshelle
So much fun. So glad I got to be a part of this. You ladies are amazing. Again, wonderful. Wonderful.
Ms Becky
Yeah. For real, shout out to the talent, like the raw talent on display. i was hot and aroused for that entire experience. And there was not one lady who didn’t fucking blow it away.
Ms Becky
So, wow. ah ah Does anyone else have any final thoughts?
Hadley
i did have one final thought and it was sort of to Goddess Michelle’s point of coming and trying to coming and trying and trying and coming.
Hadley
um And I also want to tell people who might not know that it is, it’s a broad focus event. And we do that on purpose because we understand that while everyone gloriously has their very own kinks and their own style, what actually gets us off is really individual, that we’re not We’re purposefully not directing it any one way.
Hadley
If you think it’s hot and you want to have an orgasm
Hadley
or just be around to hear other people encouraged to have orgasms, you should come and try. It’s a good time. And you don’t you’re not required to do… Well, very much.
Hadley
if you don’t want to If you’re not worried about prizes, you’re not really required to do anything. Just come and enjoy it and have the ride. And I know this was my first stroke-a-thon, but the one prior to that, my understanding is one of the participants didn’t win the prize, but did choose to hang out and take the rest of the ride and not only got off the first time, but he managed to get himself in a second round. So there’s, there’s a lot of possibilities for ways to enjoy this. And and I really encourage everybody to just come and try. It’s a good time.
Ms Becky
Yeah, for real. And keep your eyes peeled around the empire. We do these big, huge group events every once in a while, and they’re always a really good time. So definitely keep your eyes peeled on our sites for the next amazing opportunity. And we will, like, listen, if I have any say at all, we will be bringing back the stroke-a-thon for next year. So if you haven’t had a chance to try it out, hopefully you’ll get that chance.
Ms Becky
Wow. This has been amazing. Thank you ladies so much for coming out today and sharing your experience with me. i have to say like, it was such an honor being out there witnessing that raw talent, the sensuality, the the fucking. inspiration you all blew my fucking mind um i do have a few announcements before we break for the day and as always big thanks to david mclood for the sound and to the ladies of enchantrix empire and femdom fridays for the friendship and inspiration You have a couple days left to add another mistress to your paid call for 10 minutes, absolutely free of charge. And if you want a longer call, you can take $16 off longer calls. As you can see, we really like multi-mistress events and sessions. So go ahead and take advantage of this offer before it’s gone. For our sakes, don’t be greedy.
Ms Becky
You also have just a couple days to get some free time in with our mistress of the month, goddess Michelle. You can add five free minutes to any paid session. and That’s the show for today.
Ms Becky
Don’t forget to like, share, and follow. I’m Miss Becky, and you can find me at intelligentphonesexcalls.com. You can find Kinkology at kinkologypodcast.com. And I’m also on Discord as LDWBecky, and I would love to hear from you. Until next week, stay kinky.
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